Year That Trembled and Reel'd Beneath Me
Year that trembled and reel'd beneath me!
Your summer wind was warm enough, yet the air I breathed froze me,
A thick gloom fell through the sunshine and darken'd me,
Must I change my triumphant songs? said I to myself,
Must I indeed learn to chant the cold dirges of the baffled?
And sullen hymns of defeat?
(Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass)
Well, yes, he is writing about the Civil War. Still, the new Terrence Malick movie, The Tree of Life, gives us permission to understand our pathetic little lives in cosmic terms. So the Civil War as analogue for the struggle of the middle-aged woman for mental and physical equilibrium - maybe it isn't quite so outrageous as it seems. Anyway, we have been borrowing from Walt Whitman to think about female mental anguish since Now Voyager.
Exiled from my own body, afraid to be alone, go to bed, take a shower, remove my shoes, afraid of anything that might force me to touch my own skin that does not respond, to feel dead flesh. Sitting seems to pinch the nerves running down my legs, teasing little tingles in my toes, creating a hypersensitive spot on my ankle, and other horrors. I am afraid to sit. I am afraid to lie down. I am afraid.
These are past pains, the fears of 2011. I have been nutty with pain and fear this past year.
However, this is the New Year. In 2012 I am part of my own body: I am with myself, in myself, integrated with myself. My breath is a bridge, connecting me to myself, connecting me to the universe. My fingers massage the pressure points in my legs, establishing harmony. My body is not an alien thing, but a perfectly tuned instrument that I play with my breath. This is the New Year, this a new world.
This is simply menopause, right? The dizziness, detachment, sense of doom - this is all part of it, right? I am not truly dying, right? No, no, all will be well. This is a new year. A year of getting better.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Exile from my own body
I am so ashamed. Soldiers who have seen things that I cannot imagine, suffering from post-traumatic stress syndrome, children horribly abused by their parents, people who have lost their jobs and can’t buy Christmas present for their children. And here I am, devastated by some crazy anxiety disorder. I have a privileged situation – a job that I love, two beautiful kids, a loving family and friends. But somehow I cannot get myself together to talk myself out of these debilitating attacks of – I don’t know what. Attacks by an insidious enemy that stalks me and seizes my body, wracking me with tingles, numbness, and terror. The panic rises, an iron vise tightens around my chest. The tingling gets worse. I try to breathe deeply, try to console myself. It isn’t real. But my head doesn’t accept that it isn’t real. It must be something terrible, nothing imaginary could feel this bad, I will lose control of my body, I am falling into pieces. I will not be able to move.
I fantasize about going out into the courtyard and screaming until the ambulance comes, they admit me to the hospital and take care of me.
I went to several doctors, but the tingling and numbness change places so that I can’t pin them down. Sometimes in across the top of my foot, sometimes my ankle goes numb, then tingling up my leg. Then the next day it is the other leg. It feels swollen but there is no visible swelling.
And then I tell myself think of Grandma – at my age having to go wait tables at Woolworth’s to make ends meet after Grandpa died, think of her having electric shock treatment, good God, for depression. What is wrong with me that I can’t pull myself together?
I am not used to living alone. This isn’t new; I was very depressed back in 1982 when I lived alone for a few months, depressed when I was so alone in my first marriage. But what is different that this has started to paint itself on my body. I pray for it go away. Let me feel seamless again, not notice my body. Please go away and leave me alone.
I have a new sympathy for madness. I never understood that madness is entirely physical – that is the very essence of it. We can’t get away because it seizes the body. I have always felt that slight disconnect of not quite fitting safely into my body, but this total alienation, this exile from myself, is new. I see pictures of myself smiling and think that was before I was sick. I want to go back. I am so ashamed of myself for falling to pieces, but I would give anything to go back.
I fantasize about going out into the courtyard and screaming until the ambulance comes, they admit me to the hospital and take care of me.
I went to several doctors, but the tingling and numbness change places so that I can’t pin them down. Sometimes in across the top of my foot, sometimes my ankle goes numb, then tingling up my leg. Then the next day it is the other leg. It feels swollen but there is no visible swelling.
And then I tell myself think of Grandma – at my age having to go wait tables at Woolworth’s to make ends meet after Grandpa died, think of her having electric shock treatment, good God, for depression. What is wrong with me that I can’t pull myself together?
I am not used to living alone. This isn’t new; I was very depressed back in 1982 when I lived alone for a few months, depressed when I was so alone in my first marriage. But what is different that this has started to paint itself on my body. I pray for it go away. Let me feel seamless again, not notice my body. Please go away and leave me alone.
I have a new sympathy for madness. I never understood that madness is entirely physical – that is the very essence of it. We can’t get away because it seizes the body. I have always felt that slight disconnect of not quite fitting safely into my body, but this total alienation, this exile from myself, is new. I see pictures of myself smiling and think that was before I was sick. I want to go back. I am so ashamed of myself for falling to pieces, but I would give anything to go back.
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
More on DSK
Have to re-think what it means to be a feminist. I have never asked myself many questions about it, taking it for granted. Of course I’m a feminist. After all, for a specialist in literature that means granting authority to voices that resist the master narrative. That's what I do for a living. But reactions to the DSK case have turned a light on in my head – for the first time, I have a sense of why some people dislike feminists as a group.
The feminists they dislike are the ones who seem happy to ignore the basic protections of our legal system – like presumption of innocence – in the case of a rich white guy to argue that of course he is guilty, even if the case gets dismissed, as will happen any day now. People who argue that the fact that the accuser turns out to be a fraudster does not mean that her word on this should be disqualified even though the single bit of evidence we have is her testimony. People who mistake the broad metaphor of rape for the legal reality of rape by interpreting an unpleasant interaction between a rich, white male and a poor woman of color as necessarily a literal case of rape.
Most frustrating of all to me is that they will not own the problem they create that in arguing that the jury (which of course will now never sit) should take the word of a known liar for proof beyond a reasonable doubt. If we extend that argument we have to justify accepting the word of all those racists who have identified random men in a police line up. The problem with our judicial system is that it has convicted the innocent to a degree that we are just now beginning to fathom through DNA evidence because juries do in fact listen to an emotionally persuasive voice.
When I think of all the people later discovered to have been innocent who have been locked away because the jury takes an accuser’s word as true I want to be very very sure before we convict. I don’t care what color the accused is – I am no more willing to lock up an innocent rich white person than I am a poor person. The eagerness to lock up a rich white person is a manifestation of a particular ideology. I have spent much of my adult life arguing that feminism is not about ideology; it’s about listening to a variety of voices. I continue to maintain this. But I do understand why a certain type of feminism arouses such disgust. Yeah, it is very difficult to make rape charges stick, but it should be.
The feminists they dislike are the ones who seem happy to ignore the basic protections of our legal system – like presumption of innocence – in the case of a rich white guy to argue that of course he is guilty, even if the case gets dismissed, as will happen any day now. People who argue that the fact that the accuser turns out to be a fraudster does not mean that her word on this should be disqualified even though the single bit of evidence we have is her testimony. People who mistake the broad metaphor of rape for the legal reality of rape by interpreting an unpleasant interaction between a rich, white male and a poor woman of color as necessarily a literal case of rape.
Most frustrating of all to me is that they will not own the problem they create that in arguing that the jury (which of course will now never sit) should take the word of a known liar for proof beyond a reasonable doubt. If we extend that argument we have to justify accepting the word of all those racists who have identified random men in a police line up. The problem with our judicial system is that it has convicted the innocent to a degree that we are just now beginning to fathom through DNA evidence because juries do in fact listen to an emotionally persuasive voice.
When I think of all the people later discovered to have been innocent who have been locked away because the jury takes an accuser’s word as true I want to be very very sure before we convict. I don’t care what color the accused is – I am no more willing to lock up an innocent rich white person than I am a poor person. The eagerness to lock up a rich white person is a manifestation of a particular ideology. I have spent much of my adult life arguing that feminism is not about ideology; it’s about listening to a variety of voices. I continue to maintain this. But I do understand why a certain type of feminism arouses such disgust. Yeah, it is very difficult to make rape charges stick, but it should be.
Friday, July 1, 2011
Mac MacClelland’s I’m Gonna Need You to Fight Me On This: How Violent Sex Helped Ease My PTSD
I had to hunt it down – it’s been on all the blogs the past few days, Mac MacClelland’s story of how violent sex with her buddy Isaac cured her of the post-traumatic stress disorder she had acquired watching a horrendously abused Haitian woman called Sibylle flip out. The usual stable of highly privileged journalists were calling the story brave – but I’m pretty sure that only other journalists would have that reaction. I think that rest of us are probably more likely to think that poor Sibylle is sad hero of the story, the one with the problems, the one who must be suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. The journalist from the most comfortable society the world has ever known who plays at living in war zones, disaster areas, then flies back home after a couple of weeks, doesn’t really have a lot of standing to represent herself as deeply traumatized but still brave after a trip to Haiti and then a really violent round of sex.
What kind of a person writes a story like this after witnessing the absolute catastrophe of tens of thousands of ruined lives? “The shocking lack of sympathy I got from some industry people I talked to about my breakdown was only compounding my concerns that I didn’t deserve to be this distraught. ‘Editors are going to think I'm a liability now. What kind of fucking pussy cries and pukes about getting almost hurt or having to watch bad things happen to other people?’"
No. The question is not what kind of pussies puke after seeing tragedy. The question is what kind of prima donna asks us to sympathize with her when she has just asked to stare at pretty much the worst life has to offer. What would make her imagine that we read her accounts of disaster zones to sympathize with her reactions to them?
Happily, it looks like journalists re beginning to feel a bit silly about embracing the article. This defensive response to readers’ generally disgusted reaction to Mac’s grotesque egocentrism pretty much says it all. The journalist sort of gives up trying to defend herself and settles for: “On behalf of free thinkers and art lovers everywhere, I reserve the right to enjoy writing you'd rather I didn't. I'm as overly politicized, hypercritical, and analytic as any other neurotic journalist….Some things are simply to be enjoyed for their decadence. This is one of them.”
No. No one gives a rat’s ass what any journalist reads for pleasure. We are objecting to your characterization of Mac’s piece as fearless. Yes, to the revolting assertion that it takes guts to hang around in a situation which you can LEAVE, go home to food, comfort and fake violent sex after a couple of weeks.
Okay, we need journalists to do that. But we do not need hear from them how brave they have been. Because their psyches just aren’t really the point. We need them because we wouldn’t know anything at all without them, but having to wade through the journalist to get to the information is a pretty high price. It is really disgusting and really embarrassing.
What kind of a person writes a story like this after witnessing the absolute catastrophe of tens of thousands of ruined lives? “The shocking lack of sympathy I got from some industry people I talked to about my breakdown was only compounding my concerns that I didn’t deserve to be this distraught. ‘Editors are going to think I'm a liability now. What kind of fucking pussy cries and pukes about getting almost hurt or having to watch bad things happen to other people?’"
No. The question is not what kind of pussies puke after seeing tragedy. The question is what kind of prima donna asks us to sympathize with her when she has just asked to stare at pretty much the worst life has to offer. What would make her imagine that we read her accounts of disaster zones to sympathize with her reactions to them?
Happily, it looks like journalists re beginning to feel a bit silly about embracing the article. This defensive response to readers’ generally disgusted reaction to Mac’s grotesque egocentrism pretty much says it all. The journalist sort of gives up trying to defend herself and settles for: “On behalf of free thinkers and art lovers everywhere, I reserve the right to enjoy writing you'd rather I didn't. I'm as overly politicized, hypercritical, and analytic as any other neurotic journalist….Some things are simply to be enjoyed for their decadence. This is one of them.”
No. No one gives a rat’s ass what any journalist reads for pleasure. We are objecting to your characterization of Mac’s piece as fearless. Yes, to the revolting assertion that it takes guts to hang around in a situation which you can LEAVE, go home to food, comfort and fake violent sex after a couple of weeks.
Okay, we need journalists to do that. But we do not need hear from them how brave they have been. Because their psyches just aren’t really the point. We need them because we wouldn’t know anything at all without them, but having to wade through the journalist to get to the information is a pretty high price. It is really disgusting and really embarrassing.
Friday, May 20, 2011
DSK....
Something strange about discourse on DSK, a weird schizophrenia. We chastise the French for having given him a pass all these years, for going okay, boys will be boys, so we won’t call DSK on his groping, his obscene texts, etc. Why do we chastise the French for not speaking out earlier? Because had DSK been halted earlier he would not have perpetrated this rape. Okay. We imagine then that there is a logical progression: harassment, groping, rape.
On the other hand, we deny any logical progression. We Americans draw an absolute line between harassment and rape. Rape is a crime of violence. It is not the logical end to flirtation, even groping. We are now re-examining Arnold Schwatzenegger – cad, sleazebag, sexual harasser - but we do not expect him now to rape someone. Because we do not believe that rape is simply an exaggerated form of harassment, unlike medieval theologians who thought that the beauty of a rape victim counted as a mitigating circumstance for the rapist.
And this is an advantage; it’s enlightened. By refusing to excuse rape as something that a woman can bring on herself through flirtatious behavior, we place it firmly out of the realm of excusable offenses.
But with DSK we are trying to have it both ways. We are assuming that he is guilty. No question of this – just look at the news. And why don’t we assume that he’s innocent until proven guilty? Because he has been an outrageous chaser of women. And yet, we do not accept that aggressive flirts, gropers, shade over into rapists. We can’t, because if we did believe in a logical progression we would consider certain circumstances to be mitigating. We don’t. A rape is a rape. It isn’t like murder where there are degrees. If the woman says no, even quietly, if she feels pressured by her inferior position, it’s rape. When the Republicans tried to invent a category of “forcible” rape, we vigorously opposed them, rightly so. Rape means nonconsensual and there is no gray area.
So let’s stop pretending that we know that DSK is guilty because he is a known dirty old man.
And let’s stop pretending that suspecting that someone may have set the crime up is the equivalent of believing in highly complicated, implausible conspiracy theories, like the one that says that the US government staged 9-11 or that the moon landings were faked. It is hardly unprecedented that political rivals set each other up, break the law to get the dirt on each other. It would not be complicated to find someone willing to claim rape for a lot of money. The police routinely consider the possibility that someone accused of a crime was set up. Why not in this case? All the more so given DSK’s reputation.
In fact, I think that our American eagerness to believe DSK guilty is probably more his role at the IMF than anything else. We are so furious at Wall Street and international banks in general that his alleged crime, rape of an immigrant by a fabulously wealthy sleazebag of a banker who pretends to be a Socialist, serves to focus our outrage. We don’t really care whether he in fact violated every rule of civilized behavior by forcing himself on a physically vulnerable woman, because he has done that again and again in a metaphorical sense. He is guilty of rape in the largest sense.
On the other hand, we deny any logical progression. We Americans draw an absolute line between harassment and rape. Rape is a crime of violence. It is not the logical end to flirtation, even groping. We are now re-examining Arnold Schwatzenegger – cad, sleazebag, sexual harasser - but we do not expect him now to rape someone. Because we do not believe that rape is simply an exaggerated form of harassment, unlike medieval theologians who thought that the beauty of a rape victim counted as a mitigating circumstance for the rapist.
And this is an advantage; it’s enlightened. By refusing to excuse rape as something that a woman can bring on herself through flirtatious behavior, we place it firmly out of the realm of excusable offenses.
But with DSK we are trying to have it both ways. We are assuming that he is guilty. No question of this – just look at the news. And why don’t we assume that he’s innocent until proven guilty? Because he has been an outrageous chaser of women. And yet, we do not accept that aggressive flirts, gropers, shade over into rapists. We can’t, because if we did believe in a logical progression we would consider certain circumstances to be mitigating. We don’t. A rape is a rape. It isn’t like murder where there are degrees. If the woman says no, even quietly, if she feels pressured by her inferior position, it’s rape. When the Republicans tried to invent a category of “forcible” rape, we vigorously opposed them, rightly so. Rape means nonconsensual and there is no gray area.
So let’s stop pretending that we know that DSK is guilty because he is a known dirty old man.
And let’s stop pretending that suspecting that someone may have set the crime up is the equivalent of believing in highly complicated, implausible conspiracy theories, like the one that says that the US government staged 9-11 or that the moon landings were faked. It is hardly unprecedented that political rivals set each other up, break the law to get the dirt on each other. It would not be complicated to find someone willing to claim rape for a lot of money. The police routinely consider the possibility that someone accused of a crime was set up. Why not in this case? All the more so given DSK’s reputation.
In fact, I think that our American eagerness to believe DSK guilty is probably more his role at the IMF than anything else. We are so furious at Wall Street and international banks in general that his alleged crime, rape of an immigrant by a fabulously wealthy sleazebag of a banker who pretends to be a Socialist, serves to focus our outrage. We don’t really care whether he in fact violated every rule of civilized behavior by forcing himself on a physically vulnerable woman, because he has done that again and again in a metaphorical sense. He is guilty of rape in the largest sense.
Friday, May 13, 2011
Why Newt and not me?
Another complaint from exile - worse than a complaint, actually. A shriek of outrage.
Newt Gingrich has announced his candidacy, and it’s going to be just too infuriating for those of us exiled from the Catholic Church because of divorce and remarriage to hear himself-righteously intoning about his appropriation of the religion. Since when does he own it? Unlike the rest of us who came up through the ranks, trying to live as Catholics, he storms in and demands annulments of not only one but TWO marriages (Jackie seems to be alive still) AND GETS THEM! Although I guess I shouldn’t be surprised – when wasn't the the institution itself owned by rich old guys swaggering around importantly?
Still, it is easier to read about all those convenient medieval annulments, like Charles IV’s after he had assented to having his wife locked up on the pretext of adultery, than this one. This one cuts too close; I have not taken communion since I remarried, figuring that I didn’t write the rules of the system, but when I entered into it as a married person, vowing before God and man that I would stay with Chris until death parted us, I was going to be playing within the rules of that system. Otherwise I would have just gotten married by a justice of the peace in the first place. It’s not like the Catholic Church is ambiguous about what it requires of you when it agrees to marry you.
But Newt, for some reason, is special. He doesn’t have to play by the rules that hold for the rest of us peons. No, despite the fact that he dumped wife number one for wife number two while wife number one was suffering with cancer, cheated on wife number two with wife number three for six years, all the while working for Clinton’s impeachment, he still gets to waltz up to take communion. Can someone explain to me why he does and I don’t?
So what does the Pope have to say about this? According to Zenit, “Addressing the issue through his Apostolic Exhortation on the Eucharist, ‘Sacramentum Caritatis,’ the Pontiff underlined the relation between the Eucharist and indissolubility of marriage. Benedict XVI says that the Church must welcome with special love the divorced faithful who have remarried and, as such, cannot receive Communion. ‘We all know that this is a particularly painful problem for people who live in situations in which they are excluded from Eucharistic Communion, and naturally for the priests who desire to help these people love the Church and love Christ,’ said the Pope during a meeting July 25 in a church at Introd, the northern Italian town near where he spent his summer holidays."
Well, not much of a painful problem for Newt. Only for the rest of us. The rest of us are told, sorry, a marriage is a marriage. To a divorced person. In a Lutheran, Baptist, Methodist, church, whatever. Marriage, all of them, count for the Catholic Church as INDISSOLUBLE. Newt, in contrast, gets his annulment from wife number 2 because she had been married to someone else. As for Jackie, I don't know. Did he in fact manage to get that one annulled? Information is not easily available.
I think that I deserve an answer to why Newt and not me. I deserve to know why Newt, Rudy Giuliani, the Kennedys, etc., get to participate in the sacraments and I don’t. Or, to be more precise, I deserve the courtesy of an honest answer to my question. Because obviously the answer is that because they are important white guys and I am an insignificant woman. I want the Pope to come out and say it.
Newt Gingrich has announced his candidacy, and it’s going to be just too infuriating for those of us exiled from the Catholic Church because of divorce and remarriage to hear himself-righteously intoning about his appropriation of the religion. Since when does he own it? Unlike the rest of us who came up through the ranks, trying to live as Catholics, he storms in and demands annulments of not only one but TWO marriages (Jackie seems to be alive still) AND GETS THEM! Although I guess I shouldn’t be surprised – when wasn't the the institution itself owned by rich old guys swaggering around importantly?
Still, it is easier to read about all those convenient medieval annulments, like Charles IV’s after he had assented to having his wife locked up on the pretext of adultery, than this one. This one cuts too close; I have not taken communion since I remarried, figuring that I didn’t write the rules of the system, but when I entered into it as a married person, vowing before God and man that I would stay with Chris until death parted us, I was going to be playing within the rules of that system. Otherwise I would have just gotten married by a justice of the peace in the first place. It’s not like the Catholic Church is ambiguous about what it requires of you when it agrees to marry you.
But Newt, for some reason, is special. He doesn’t have to play by the rules that hold for the rest of us peons. No, despite the fact that he dumped wife number one for wife number two while wife number one was suffering with cancer, cheated on wife number two with wife number three for six years, all the while working for Clinton’s impeachment, he still gets to waltz up to take communion. Can someone explain to me why he does and I don’t?
So what does the Pope have to say about this? According to Zenit, “Addressing the issue through his Apostolic Exhortation on the Eucharist, ‘Sacramentum Caritatis,’ the Pontiff underlined the relation between the Eucharist and indissolubility of marriage. Benedict XVI says that the Church must welcome with special love the divorced faithful who have remarried and, as such, cannot receive Communion. ‘We all know that this is a particularly painful problem for people who live in situations in which they are excluded from Eucharistic Communion, and naturally for the priests who desire to help these people love the Church and love Christ,’ said the Pope during a meeting July 25 in a church at Introd, the northern Italian town near where he spent his summer holidays."
Well, not much of a painful problem for Newt. Only for the rest of us. The rest of us are told, sorry, a marriage is a marriage. To a divorced person. In a Lutheran, Baptist, Methodist, church, whatever. Marriage, all of them, count for the Catholic Church as INDISSOLUBLE. Newt, in contrast, gets his annulment from wife number 2 because she had been married to someone else. As for Jackie, I don't know. Did he in fact manage to get that one annulled? Information is not easily available.
I think that I deserve an answer to why Newt and not me. I deserve to know why Newt, Rudy Giuliani, the Kennedys, etc., get to participate in the sacraments and I don’t. Or, to be more precise, I deserve the courtesy of an honest answer to my question. Because obviously the answer is that because they are important white guys and I am an insignificant woman. I want the Pope to come out and say it.
Saturday, May 7, 2011
God Save the Queen?
We had been playing with the idea of getting dual citizenship, adding a New Zealand passport to our American one – I’ve always thought it would be so cool to carry multiple passports. Besides, we could go to Cuba, and who knows when the plane we are travelling on might get high-jacked, in which case it would be an advantage to be carrying a kiwi rather than American passport.
But then came the explosion of debate on the British royalty brought on by the Royal Wedding, and it suddenly occurred to me that to become citizens we would have to raise our right hands and pledge allegiance to the queen. (Actually, the exact expression used in the oath, it turns out, is “honour” the queen.)
Let’s think about this. Because if you are not the sort of person who raises your hand to swear to whatever, in other words, if have any principles at all and are not a feeble piece of crap loser ready to denounce your neighbour for a dollar, this can only mean that you accept the premises of the monarchy.
True, the internet is filled with nauseating and half-assed defenses of the monarchy from people who do not believe in it. Bizarrely, loads of Brits are willing to maintain the wacky institution as good for tourism or because it “holds the country together.” Mark Vernon writes on his blog that the “mystery of the monarchy is that it holds all sorts of things for us that other political systems struggle to do. A modern monarchy speaks of the pre-political values necessary for democracy, values like charity and trust, and which the modern royal dignifies in his or her day job. These can't be voted in, and they are not rational.” Vernon attributes this ability of the queen to serve as a sort of social glue for the irrational to the fact that she is “symbolic” and therefore capable of encompassing contradictory values. Let’s be clear about this: as Vernon admits, the queen is just a cipher upon which to project pretty much anything. But you don’t get to create a society around what you freely admit to be a cipher. In fact, if everyone came out and agreed that the monarchy is a benign collective fantasy, the whole thing would collapse. The system presents itself as a reality; the queen IS the queen. Her queenship is itself as a predicated on the assumption that some people are better than others by virtue of genealogy. It isn’t as if she could get on TV, wink and say, “We all know that this is a bunch of horse shit, but it’s good for tourism, so I’ll pretend to be your queen and you pretend to be my subjects.” Either she is the queen or she isn’t, and those capable of demystifying royalty and still wanting to keep her around are either morons or cynics.
We how believe in republics rather than monarchies rally around fantasies, too, around various values and offices, as Vernon not very insightfully points out. But the difference is that under no circumstances are we asked to believe that we are distinguishable on the basis of our blood. We have been through the Enlightenment, and we have been warned by the Dialectic of Enlightenment of the necessity of myth in our everyday lives to keep horrors like Hitler and his nutty mythology at bay. Still, the point is that we are never asked to swear that we believe in our own myths. We are asked to accept a set of values, a set of ideals, but when we raise our right hands we are asked only whether we will uphold the law. On the other hand, the myth of the monarchy demands our assent to an insane fantasy that some blood is more valuable than others. Most of the time here in New Zealand this nutty idea lingers in the background, emerging occasionally on TV in the form of a royal wedding. I can live in this country (although I do it under protest). But I will not volunteer to become a subject of the queen of England. My God, what would be left? The British monarchy is a totalizing system of belief. Anyone who subjects oneself to it has to believe in it: that, or admit to living in a strange world of half light and fantasy, or, even worse, to having no beliefs at all.
But then came the explosion of debate on the British royalty brought on by the Royal Wedding, and it suddenly occurred to me that to become citizens we would have to raise our right hands and pledge allegiance to the queen. (Actually, the exact expression used in the oath, it turns out, is “honour” the queen.)
Let’s think about this. Because if you are not the sort of person who raises your hand to swear to whatever, in other words, if have any principles at all and are not a feeble piece of crap loser ready to denounce your neighbour for a dollar, this can only mean that you accept the premises of the monarchy.
True, the internet is filled with nauseating and half-assed defenses of the monarchy from people who do not believe in it. Bizarrely, loads of Brits are willing to maintain the wacky institution as good for tourism or because it “holds the country together.” Mark Vernon writes on his blog that the “mystery of the monarchy is that it holds all sorts of things for us that other political systems struggle to do. A modern monarchy speaks of the pre-political values necessary for democracy, values like charity and trust, and which the modern royal dignifies in his or her day job. These can't be voted in, and they are not rational.” Vernon attributes this ability of the queen to serve as a sort of social glue for the irrational to the fact that she is “symbolic” and therefore capable of encompassing contradictory values. Let’s be clear about this: as Vernon admits, the queen is just a cipher upon which to project pretty much anything. But you don’t get to create a society around what you freely admit to be a cipher. In fact, if everyone came out and agreed that the monarchy is a benign collective fantasy, the whole thing would collapse. The system presents itself as a reality; the queen IS the queen. Her queenship is itself as a predicated on the assumption that some people are better than others by virtue of genealogy. It isn’t as if she could get on TV, wink and say, “We all know that this is a bunch of horse shit, but it’s good for tourism, so I’ll pretend to be your queen and you pretend to be my subjects.” Either she is the queen or she isn’t, and those capable of demystifying royalty and still wanting to keep her around are either morons or cynics.
We how believe in republics rather than monarchies rally around fantasies, too, around various values and offices, as Vernon not very insightfully points out. But the difference is that under no circumstances are we asked to believe that we are distinguishable on the basis of our blood. We have been through the Enlightenment, and we have been warned by the Dialectic of Enlightenment of the necessity of myth in our everyday lives to keep horrors like Hitler and his nutty mythology at bay. Still, the point is that we are never asked to swear that we believe in our own myths. We are asked to accept a set of values, a set of ideals, but when we raise our right hands we are asked only whether we will uphold the law. On the other hand, the myth of the monarchy demands our assent to an insane fantasy that some blood is more valuable than others. Most of the time here in New Zealand this nutty idea lingers in the background, emerging occasionally on TV in the form of a royal wedding. I can live in this country (although I do it under protest). But I will not volunteer to become a subject of the queen of England. My God, what would be left? The British monarchy is a totalizing system of belief. Anyone who subjects oneself to it has to believe in it: that, or admit to living in a strange world of half light and fantasy, or, even worse, to having no beliefs at all.
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